About the song
Harry Chapin’s “Cat’s in the Cradle” is a poignant and introspective folk rock song that delves into the complexities of father-son relationships and the passage of time. Released in 1974 on his album “Verities & Balderdash,” the song was written by Chapin himself, drawing inspiration from a poem by his wife, Sandy.
“Cat’s in the Cradle” struck a chord with listeners for its heartfelt lyrics and emotional storytelling. The song tells the story of a father who is too busy with work and other commitments to spend time with his son. As the son grows older and eventually becomes a father himself, the roles reverse, highlighting the cyclical nature of life and the regret that comes with missed opportunities.
Upon its release, “Cat’s in the Cradle” became one of Harry Chapin’s most iconic songs, resonating with audiences and achieving commercial success. It peaked at number 1 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, solidifying Chapin’s reputation as a masterful storyteller and folk rock artist.
The song’s enduring popularity can be attributed to its universal theme of family dynamics and the poignant reflection on the importance of cherishing moments with loved ones. Its inclusion in various films, TV shows, and compilations over the years has cemented its status as a classic in the realm of folk and rock music.
Harry Chapin’s “Cat’s in the Cradle” continues to be cherished for its profound lyrics, melodic simplicity, and Chapin’s emotive delivery. It serves as a timeless reminder to prioritize relationships and embrace the fleeting moments that shape our lives, resonating with listeners of all ages who appreciate thoughtful and introspective songwriting.
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Lyrics
My child arrived just the other day
He came to the world in the usual way
But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay
He learned to walk while I was away
And he was talking ‘fore I knew it, and as he grew
He’d say “I’m gonna be like you, dad”
“You know I’m gonna be like you”
And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when”
But we’ll get together then
You know we’ll have a good time then
My son turned ten just the other day
He said, thanks for the ball, dad, come on let’s play
Can you teach me to throw, I said-a, not today
I got a lot to do, he said, that’s okay
And he, he walked away, but his smile never dimmed
It said, I’m gonna be like him, yeah
You know I’m gonna be like him
And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when”
But we’ll get together then
You know we’ll have a good time then
Well, he came from college just the other day
So much like a man I just had to say
Son, I’m proud of you, can you sit for a while?
He shook his head, and they said with a smile
What I’d really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys
See you later, can I have them please?
And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, son?” “I don’t know when”
But we’ll get together then, dad
You know we’ll have a good time then
I’ve long since retired, my son’s moved away
I called him up just the other day
I said, I’d like to see you if you don’t mind
He said, I’d love to, dad, if I can find the time
You see, my new job’s a hassle, and the kids have the flu
But it’s sure nice talking to you, dad
It’s been sure nice talking to you
And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me
He’d grown up just like me
My boy was just like me
And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
“When you coming home, son?” “I don’t know when”
But we’ll get together then, dad
We’re gonna have a good time then